Searching for a real-life happy ever after

Random Poem 2: Where is your White Knight?

January 13, 2010 at 10:00 am (Learning to love yourself, Personal Growth, Understanding Relationships) (advice, development, emotions, growth, hope, knight, love, poem, poetry, relationships, right, understanding, victim, white, wrong)

So another inspirer on the quest for a white knight and a fairytale ending – to lose the victim syndrome!  The “victim syndrome” can be so unattractive, so desperate, so needy when you’re in a relationship.  The baggage of previous relationships enveloping around us – and pushing everyone else away.  It’s very easy to be a victim when you put yourself in that role all the time.  Therefore understanding if you do this is very, very important.

So how do you spot it?  You should probably already have a feeling that you play the victim in a relationship… and you’re probably always looking for greener pastures when things go wrong (check out the poem below that inspired this post!).  We try to run away from our own flaws, our own hurt, and yet we still struggle to do so.  We hide behind the troubles in our life – and we struggle to accept that we perpetuate them.  And just accepting this is the road to change.

Some interesting reads:

How to stop being a victim

Stop Being a Victim & Take Control of Your Life

Read the personal bill of rights bit on this one…

Believe in yourself.  Become your own princess.  Love yourself for who you are.

CJx

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Where is your White Knight?

Cyclic emotions over again

Feel that feeling of heartache and pain

Twisting and turning around in your head.

Impulsive responses repeating the truth

That love is something I’ll never find again.

Romeos at dawn fight for attention

Sweet ones, strong ones, superficial ones

All different and yet all the same.

All after one thing again and again.

To grasp for attention, filling their egos

With a reassurance they’re the best thing since forever.

They use you, abuse you, hurt you, confuse you.

Put you last in priorities and it’s doormat time again.

Repetition.  So boring.  You tire of it.

You want your white knight to ride in and rescue you

From a fate worse than death if it never ceases.

To fill you with love, cherish you, need you.

Care, adore and please you.

But where is he?

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